TheMiamiDeSantos 2023-08-06 18:02:57

guidodinho? that sounds portuguese, are you brazilian? About the nonbinary stuff, those things are a little complex, it took me some time to know what the fuck a nonbinary was, a cisgender, a pansexual, etc, etc, etc, it's strange it's like they don't accept who they are they need to have other people calling them the way they want. If i were gay or trans or nonbinary or something it would be my business i wouldnt care if people were calling me whatever they were. It's not like also the idea of "im a nonbinary" just came on their minds, they saw it somewhere else and now they're repeating it, they see other people insisting on the right pronouns and they again repeat it, they think it's a must to be called nonbinary and to emphasize their right pronouns. Can't they just be it and dont keep trying to emphasize it? Like, just be cool, be yourself, it's not like people have on their minds "i gotta know about this person intimacy before i can know them better", what matter mostly to people is your kindess, how you're polite, in case of an artist how good is your art, if you're a nice person, some care about wisdom (by which is my case)

TheMiamiDeSantos 2023-08-17 01:16:41

@JJBolton635 yo dude, i understand i have many lgbt friends and followers and i love them all. I agree it's not the biggest part of them at all that are paranoid activists that think every non lgbt is a homophobe, but in fact there are a lot out there and it put a stigma to them making many people outside the lgbt sphere think they are all the paranoid activists kind, it's pretty self-destructive to their community
And let's be honest, mostly of those lgbt are all influenced and many influenced by lgbt activists and they are literally the image and likeness of those influences of them, i see many lgbt politicians speech and some of them lgbt talks like they are politicians too.
I stopped to use social media at 2020 and got back to use in 2022 in order to promote my stuff and many things changed, there were a lot of lgbt people, it took me sometime to understand those cisgender, pan, nonbinary etc etc, there was not such thing as transexual back then we used to call it transvestite
i finished highschool in 2017 and there was 3 gays in my classroom then i was talking about it with a little older cousin of mine he was like "3 in your classroom? back at my time there was 1 in the whole school"
I'm a very old school dude, i know some old school lgbts, i think the new lgbts could be more like them, like just be cool about pronouns, no need to be a paranoid activist and ting, if you were brazilian i would talk about a dude called clodovil hernandes by which i think he was one of the best politicians we ever had here and he was gay, great speech, no activism, he even makes being gay look actually cool. I'm also (artistically) inspired by some guys like tobias forge, alice cooper, marilyn manson, those guys don't officially claims they're lgbt or something and they're even married to women and have kids, but they look gay, i think if they find a guy to bang them they would get banged, but still, they're just themselves, no need to fly no flag, emphasize nomenclatures, be paranoid about everyone who miss a pronoun or make a criticism to the lgbt thing is homophobe, etc

Guidodinho 2023-08-17 06:30:02

@JJBolton635

Let me try to put it in a question, as simple as I can.
If I didn't feel very binary, as a biological male. And somebody would ask me about my gender identity. Wouldn't it be so much easier for everybody, to just say: 'Yeah, I'm a guy, but I just don't give a single damn about presenting myself in a masculine way, what so ever'
Wouldn't that simply get everybody to agree and get allong, without making things complicated or dramatic?

Guidodinho 2023-08-17 06:41:02

This may make me sound more stupid than I already do. But I think I perfectly understand why people would present themselves, in a non-binary fashion, not-comforming to the old-fashioned gender-norms and expectations some people still have today. I just find the mere existance of all of these words like 'non-binairy' or 'gender-fluid' to be so utterly silly and completely useless, for anybody! Just makes things needlessly complicated and confusing for everybody.